10.16.2019

Dressing Up in Costume

The Meaning of Costumes and Masks
Much of children’s pretending and play comes out of their inner needs and feelings– and helps them work on their fears and master them. Fred Roger's said that play allows children to work on what’s close to their hearts, but from a safe distance.

10.14.2019

Spanking

Resolving Differences About Spanking
Teaching your children how to self-regulate requires tools and strategies for effective discipline. The word discipline, in fact, is derived from the Latin word discere, which means “to learn.”

9.18.2019

Strengthening Social Skills

What Is Social Competence?

It's about being able to deal with conflicts, frustration, jealousy and disappointment and involves skills like problem- solving, self-control, self-regulation, communication, and seeing things from another perspective. It's the foundation of academic success.

8.12.2019

If You Ever Hurt My Daughter

• I Swear I Will
Let her navigate her own emotional growth.

7.14.2019

Tantrums Take Two

• A Field Guide to Taming Tantrums
When a child has a meltdown it always involves the parent before, during, and after.

6.24.2019

Family Photos Post-Divorce

Pictures Celebrating Common Ground
When parents divorce each other, they don't divorce their children. For a child the photos taken at birthdays, a first day of school, graduations, and other occasions—are pictures of her and her parents celebrating something joyful together.

6.01.2019

Post-Divorce Friendships

Navigating Shared Friendships Post-Divorce
Dealing with the collateral damage of divorce such as tensions with shared friends can be challenging. It's important for your children to do so with grace and equanimity.